Ladies, there is really no point in being jealous of your boyfriend’s past relationships or even the girls that flirt with him. You’re the one that’s with him now. Every Olympian has his or her strength, but only one takes home the gold. You’ve already won so who why worry yourself with them.

My mind is consumed by so many thoughts sometimes. I want to help out the world, but then sometimes I catch myself indulging in materialism. Perhaps, I donate because it gives me peace of mind and temporary relief that I made the world a better place even with my one tiny deed. I may not be able to change the world, but I’ve changed someone’s day a little bit. Sigh, I don’t know where I’m going with this. I guess I just mean to say I always wish this world was a better place, but many times I catch myself just doing the opposite of that. My time is spent on useless things that really helps no one. 

On a totally different note, has anyone noticed when people get insulted over the internet, the first thing they do is try to find a grammar error instead of fighting their actual argument. For example: 

“Your a try hard, blahblahbalhblhalbha.”

person’s comeback: you’re* learn how to spell.

like seriously LOL. 

I don’t understand why our human complexity won’t allow exes to just allow bygones to be bygones. Why must something once so beautiful turn into hate so easily? Don’t you owe them at least the decency to not spread lies about them. I mean you once loved them, once had something special….Does that mean nothing to you? People need to be more mature about such things in life. 

I just feel happy seeing others being able to move on and happy that I am able to feel that way. That just means I’ve let things go and set myself free. I just wish more people out there would be able to think like that. I just miss those friends that I’ve lost, because a relationship didn’t work out. Why can’t we be friends again? Is it always black or white in life…All or Nothing? 

This was one of the best Christmases I’ve had, because I got to spend it with Will and his wonderful family. They made me feel like their own family and it was nice being able to experience Christmas from another family’s point of view. I want to dedicate this post to my boyfriend for making sure I was having fun the entire time. He’s such a sweet guy, and although I’d like to upload photos of all the thoughtful gifts he got me, but I realized materialistic items aren’t what define our relationship. I’m not consumed in the items he got me, although they are all wonderful, thoughtful, and expensive ;). The most important things he got me are priceless. I am incredibly thankful that I can trust him NO MATTER WHAT, he always makes sure I am not sad or mad, and most importantly if I am he always finds a way to please me. He is one of the most trustworthy and loyal men I have ever met, and I wouldn’t rather be with anyone else. I’ve found my dream guy and he makes me smile, cry, and laugh in so many different ways. Honey, I just want to let you know even if you got me nothing for Christmas I would be just as glad, because you are all I want. You cheer me up, motivate me to do well in school, and give me the strength to keep becoming a better person everyday. Everyday spent with you has been a joyful one. I hope our journey continues just as smoothly, but of course the bumps along the way define us. We just have to keep pushing. Almost 8 months together and I just love you more everyday!

I also love my family and the fact they trust me and love me enough to let me spend my Christmas with my boyfriend. I love the fact both our families get along together so the both of us can have a smooth relationship. I love how my family welcomes Will and loves him. I am glad that everything is going along so smoothly along with school and everything else. 

This Christmas has been one of the best Christmases I’ve had ever since I’ve grown up and gained responsibilities. And although those responsibilities keep piling up, I know I have a family and loved ones to always support me along the way. Merry Christmas, everyone.

There aren’t many words out there to fully express how I feel about this man. He brightens my days and makes me smile for the weirdest reasons out there. He has a big weakness of not being able to multitask and amazingly I love him for this, because being the amazing multitasking monster I am, I can help him. I can be the one to rescue his problems. It’s the same scenario with him. He’s neat and organized opposed to my lazy and disorganized stature. I feel like we complement each other. Make each other better people-a dynamic duo as to speak. 

He does so many little things out for me that are able to spark my interest. It’s not those times he pays for an expensive dinner, takes me shopping at South Coast Plaza, or even drives me home for nearly 2 weeks when I didn’t have my own car. Of course, I am grateful for those times, but he is the man for me is because he knows the little things about me. He knows I love crushed ice, and since his house only has cubed ice he goes through countless effort to provide me something I like. The first time I saw him take out a hammer and make crushed ice in a plastic bag, I didn’t know if I should laugh or cry. It was so romantic, out of the ordinary, and the perfect gift. 

I don’t really know where I am going with this, but I just want William Letu to know, where ever he is, I love him very much. Yes, I am talking to you honey! I love you. And to all the girls out there, don’t create unrealistic expectations for your man. IF you want a wonderful man, don’t set limits and standards inside your head. Because the reality of it is, there is no such thing as a perfect, ideal man. It’s in your head for a reason.

Why must we let petty arguments consume our wonderful time together?

Why are the people giving out dating advice also the ones that can’t even stay in a relationship?